Heartbreak

We all have experienced a heart wrenching situation at least once in our life. A definition of that heart wrenching, excruciating pain type of feeling is different for everyone. And that changes with every phase of life. For a child of 3 years of age going to school and separating from a mother is a heartbreak. For a 5 year losing or breaking his pencil or a toy is a heartbreak. For a 8 year separating from a friend on a different desk or a class is a heartbreak. For a teenage changing school or getting in to a different college from their friends is a heartbreak. In a youth having a crush or a boyfriend and not working out with them is a heartbreak. In 30s not getting paid or appreciation for your work is a heartbreak. In 40s not able to fulfill your dreams is a heartbreak. In 50s ur children living away from you is a heartbreak. In old age losing your partner to illness or due to any other reason is a heartbreak.

It changes, with everyday, every year, it’s definition changes but what constant is that you are going to experience this, you are going to enter the phase of heart wrenching pain, which doesn’t eases for a while, which shows you dark clouds but with the passing time when you look back you realises that it’s a phase and not a whole life. And it has tought you something important and that will make you more stronger and firmer and courageous.

Don’t get disheartened by any of these phases. Let the time work on its ways. And enjoy every phase.